Make sure to wash your hands before you put on the pad on and that you dispose of it in a trash bin after wrapping it up in its wrapper or in toilet paper. Some people prefer to use cloth pads over the more common pads. Though they are not said to be more absorbent, they are more environmentally conscious.

You should try to get pads with wings to make sure that they don’t move around too much and that they are tightly stuck to your underwear.

If you always tend to leak either in front or behind your pad, you can also move it up or down a bit, depending on where you tend to leak.

Just make sure that the underwear isn’t too loose. Looser underwear will actually make your pad move around more and will make it more likely that you’ll have an accident.

Though a pair of period panties can cost $20-30 dollars or more, if you get just a few pairs and always wear them on your period, they can be a worthwhile investment.

If you’ve run out of pads or pantyliners, don’t be afraid to ask a friend or even a teacher for some backup. Remember that every millions of people have a period, and even if your friends can’t help you, they will be sympathetic. If you’re one of the first of your friends to menstruate, then you can try to ask the people who you know may be able to help.

That said, you shouldn’t feel like you have to skip gym class or spend all day sitting in a corner feeling miserable when you’re on your period. In fact, exercising can help reduce cramps.

Though you don’t need to wear frumpy clothes during your period and you should feel beautiful all the time, if you wear darker clothes, then you’ll be less worried about having an accident.

If you have to go during class, don’t worry about your teacher getting annoyed; if you ask nicely and don’t make a habit of it thirty days a month, everything will be just fine.

Think about: the worst case scenario is that you’ve leaked on the sheets and someone else finds out about it. It’s likely that only another person will find out, and they will completely understand what happened, so you really have nothing to worry about. If someone sees the bloody sheets, they will understand what happened, too. Don’t worry so much about what can happen and focus on having a sound, restful sleep.

Sure, if you leak in public, it can be embarrassing for a minute or two, but you shouldn’t go out in public feeling scared when you have your period because you’re afraid you could leak at any minute. Don’t let your period prevent you from living your life. If you really find that you can’t feel comfortable when wearing a pad, then you can see if using a tampon or menstrual cup is more comfortable for you. Though you have to change tampons every 8 hours at most, and menstrual cups every 10 or so hours, they can help prevent leakage and may feel more comfortable than pads.