Don’t be discouraged if this takes time. You may be waiting on him for a week, as Geminis are easily distracted. However, he’ll set aside time to call once he realizes he needs to make you a priority. If he hasn’t called or texted you for a week, it might be good to ask him what’s up. Don’t bombard him, however; just send one quick text and wait for a reply.
Gemini is a mutable sign, meaning he’s flexible and quick-thinking, but can also be highly indecisive. Playing hard-to-get this way will make Gemini see that he has to fight for your affection if he wants you in his life.
Gemini guys are independent and uncomfortable with clingy partners, so he won’t be offended if he sees you having fun without him. On the contrary, it’ll make him want to join in. Geminis are easily bored and prefer constant stimulus to keep them entertained. He’ll be impressed by you when he sees how fulfilling your life is and make more effort to be part of it.
Be careful not to overdo it; openly breaking things off and going on dates with new people won’t win him over, but attracting interest from other guys and engaging in some light flirting can.
Gemini isn’t the most romantic sign and doesn’t like being overly attached. He values his personal freedom, so he’ll take comfort in knowing you can do your own thing while you’re together.
Gemini guys will appreciate any trendy and eye-catching outfit, so don’t worry about sticking to a particular style. Just make sure you feel good in whatever you’re wearing, and he’ll think you look good too. If you have something unique to wear, try that out. He’ll admire your ability to stand out from the crowd.
You don’t need to be evasive when he asks you questions; just slowly open up to him and offer fewer details at first.
“Wow, the way you’re butchering that dance is so elegant and skillful, I can’t stop looking!” “How did you not know that? Did you grow up under a rock or something?”
Make sure you move around the room and talk to everyone so he can see that you’re just as outgoing as he is. When you introduce yourself, try asking for the other person’s name and make an effort to learn a bit about them and their interests.
Send him an intriguing news article and ask for his thoughts on it, or talk to him about your favorite movies, books, and other media. Challenge him to a game of both chance and skill, where you can show off your brainpower and knowledge. Ask about his opinions and preferences to impress him further. Geminis are very dual-minded, so questions like “Do you prefer pop music or country?” are entertaining for him.
Propose an adventure with him where you’ll go somewhere in town that neither of you has ever been before. Get him to join you for a spontaneous lunch date at a new restaurant in town. Ask him to come on a weekend getaway with you and try visiting either a city you’ve never seen before or a place in the woods with lots of trails and activities to explore.
He might try to play you by refusing to put labels on the relationship, but show him you’re even better at having a good time than he is and he’ll be itching to commit. When Gemini gets attached to you he’ll be overly chatty, even slipping up and saying something inappropriate, or he’ll clam up around you when he’s normally laid back.
