If you have a backpack, this can be a good choice as long as you’re a light packer. If you’re the type to bring several changes of clothes, and any cosmetic products, this may be a bad option. Something like a small duffel bag or a gym bag may work well if you tend to pack a little extra. Bring a can of wrinkle spray with you if you’re worried about your clothes wrinkling in your bag.
If you stay over at your boyfriend’s a lot, you may want to splurge on a second charger and keep it at his place. This way, you won’t be stuck in a pinch if you stay over again and forget your charger.
Make sure to pack your toothbrush in a plastic bag or plastic toothbrush container. You do not want it to get messy in your bag. It’s a good idea to have a separate toiletries bag to pack these kinds of products.
If you’re on birth control, make sure to pack this. It’s important you take your pill every day to prevent pregnancy. If you have intercourse with your partner while staying overnight, you want to be able to take your pill the next day as usual.
If you plan to go out at any point, you may need a good number of styling products on hand. However, if you’re just hanging out, you may not need to bring all that much. If you’re bringing a lot of product over, consider buying travel sized containers of the products you use. This will free up space in your bag.
In a pinch, you may be able to use one of your boyfriend’s t-shirts as PJ’s, but you don’t want to assume anything. Pack a pair of your own just in case. Try rolling your clothes instead of folding them—this is a great way to save space!
To be polite, bring something you can share. If he has roommates, for example, bring a large bag of chips meant for everyone.
Never assume your boyfriend has protection. You don’t want to be caught up in a moment and realize you don’t have protection. You can always ask your boyfriend ahead of time if he has protection. This can save you some time and space in your suitcase.
Pack some formal and informal clothing. That way, if a wardrobe change is needed, you’ll have a few items on hand. If you wear jewelry or other accessories, you may want to pack some of those as well. It can help to plan exactly what you’re going to wear before you start packing. Remember, however, that you’re only going away for a night or so. It can weigh down your suitcase to bring your entire closet. Stick to around two potential outfits.
If you don’t love mints, you can opt for dissolvable fresh breath strips. These can be purchased at most pharmacies.
If it’s going to be cold, you might want to pack a scarf and/or a big jacket.
Try breaking down larger bills like twenties into tens, singles, and fives. This can make things easier when splitting up payments.
